When I was a kid, I had great respect for my elders. I also had great respect for my contemporaries simply because that's what I was taught to do. In fact, I may possibly have accorded more respect to many (old and young) than was actually necessary. Not that I should have treated them badly. It's just that I held some in much higher esteem than was warranted.
The older I got the more perspective I gained about sense, non-sense, bluster, honesty, empathy and integrity. I was, most certainly and understandably youth generally is, naive. But I was also idealistic. I thought that a person could be taken at his word, and in that, I was wrong. At least in some cases.
This lesson was driven home for me soon after college. I had a temporary position at a local television station which I had hoped would become permanent. My 'boss' in this position was one of the nicest, most honest, empathetic, sympathetic and virtuous individuals that I had (and have) ever met. I believed that this is what a boss should be. I also believed that this is what other bosses would be. When the position failed to become permanent and I sought employment in another field, I quickly learned that my boss at the TV stations was a rare find, indeed.
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